{"id":21,"date":"2018-02-05T14:11:00","date_gmt":"2018-02-05T12:11:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blogit.terve.fi\/mariaisstrong\/2018\/02\/05\/elama-ilman-odotuksia\/"},"modified":"2018-02-05T14:11:00","modified_gmt":"2018-02-05T12:11:00","slug":"elama-ilman-odotuksia","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blogit.terve.fi\/mariaisstrong\/elama-ilman-odotuksia\/","title":{"rendered":"El\u00e4m\u00e4 ilman odotuksia"},"content":{"rendered":"
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\nViikonloppu oli aikamoinen. Eilen uupumus veti kropan vetel\u00e4ksi spagetiksi. Silmi\u00e4 ei meinannut pysty\u00e4 pit\u00e4m\u00e4\u00e4n auki. Puolison flunssa veti heikoksi ja kuopus alkoi eilen kuumeilla. Ainoa, joka meid\u00e4n taloudessa pysyi hyvin tolpillaan oli esikoinen. Ja onneksi meill\u00e4 on varsin reipas esikoinen.<\/div>\n
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\nEilen tuli monta kertaa inhottava olo. Kaikki kaatuu ja t\u00e4st\u00e4 ei selvit\u00e4. Juu-u, maalaan piruja aika runsaalla k\u00e4dell\u00e4 aina seinille. Kaikki menee kuitenkin ohi. Voi kun oppisin sen, ett\u00e4 tilanteeseen kuin tilanteeseen ei saa menn\u00e4 mink\u00e4\u00e4nlaisten odotusten kanssa.Odotuksista seuraa usein pettymys. Itse olen huomannut, ett\u00e4 odotusten kanssa ei oikeastaan pysty edes nauttimaan mist\u00e4\u00e4n kunnolla. Se johtuu varmaan siit\u00e4, ett\u00e4 tarkkailen tilanteita j\u00e4nnittyneen\u00e4 ja seuraan kohtaavatko ne odotusteni kanssa. Harvoin kohtaavat. <\/div>\n
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\nTilanteen ollessa jo valmiiksi ep\u00e4miellytt\u00e4v\u00e4, odotusten siit\u00e4, millaista tilanteen, p\u00e4iv\u00e4n ja el\u00e4m\u00e4n pit\u00e4isi olla luo hyv\u00e4t puitteet henkil\u00f6kohtaiselle katastrofille. Siit\u00e4 kai ahdistus ja masennus pitk\u00e4lle johtuu. N\u00e4in on ainakin omalla kohdallani. <\/div>\n

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\nItse otan el\u00e4m\u00e4n turhan vakavasti niilt\u00e4 osin, miss\u00e4 sen pit\u00e4isi antaa vain olla ja tulla. Lipua ohi. Jos tarkkaan miettii, niin hyvin pieni osa meid\u00e4n p\u00e4iv\u00e4st\u00e4mme on jollain tapaa merkityksellist\u00e4 tulevien p\u00e4ivien kannalta. Monet asiat voi tehd\u00e4 suurinpiirtein ja silti el\u00e4m\u00e4 jatkuu. Tai silt\u00e4 ainakin n\u00e4ytt\u00e4\u00e4 kun omat voimavarat loppuu. El\u00e4m\u00e4 jatkuu.<\/p>\n

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\nJotain on kuitenkin saatu t\u00e4n\u00e4\u00e4n aikaiseksi. Kroppa tuntuu pikkuhiljaa her\u00e4\u00e4v\u00e4n eloon, vaikka jalka ei kaksisesti nouse ja tasapaino heitt\u00e4\u00e4. Parin p\u00e4iv\u00e4n ruokaostokset on tehty ja t\u00e4ytetty kaksi nettilomaketta. Toinen Kelaan ja Kevaan. T\u00e4n\u00e4\u00e4n nuo kuvan pienet varpaat on kuumeessa peiton alla, mutta t\u00e4n\u00e4\u00e4n voisi illalla paistaa banaanil\u00e4ttyj\u00e4 lohturuoaksi.<\/p>\n

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Our weekend was quite horrid. Yesterday my body was like a cooked spaghetti and it was quite a task to keep my eyes opened. Hubby was ill with flu and yesterday our littlest one’s temperature went up. Only one still standing was our oldest child and he was very helpful.<\/i><\/span>
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\nYesterday’s overall feeling was misery. Everything is falling and we will not make through it. Yes, always making things worse than they actually are. Everything will pass. How I wish I would remember that in any situation: expectations equals disappointment. I have noticed that when I go into situations with expectations I cannot even enjoy myself. I usually observe situations with tension whether they meet my expectations. They rarely do. When a situation is already uncomfortable one my bad expectations with it usually means personal disaster. I suppose that is where anxiety and depression comes from.<\/i><\/span><\/p>\n

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\nI take life too seriously, at least in things that I should just go by. Very few things in our every day life holds such a significant meaning that it has great value to our future.<\/i><\/div>\n
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\nI have manage to do few things today. Body seems to be reacting to cortisone even if my walking is so-so and balance is bit off. I’ve done grocery shopping for few days and filled few forms online for benefits. Today those little toes of my littlest one in the photo are under a duvet ill with high temperature but as on Saturday morning, I might have enough energy later on to make banana pancakes (just eggs and mashed banana). Little bit of comfort food makes any day better. <\/i><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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